Notes: Unless other otherwise stated Wordless Wednesday posts are not my artwork, and the credit to the artist is given as a link above the image.

Wednesday, 28 November 2007

Left behind as professionals

Having come from a general nursing background to mental health I found myself confronted with frustration, not just my own but that of my colleagues as well.

In general nursing the nurses have autonomy, they are regarded for the most part as professionals, they are included as part of the multi-disciplinary team and what they have to say is listened to.

Now when you compare general nurses to mental health nurses the difference is amazing, they are still supposedly part of the multi-disciplinary team, yet the feeling is different. There are many who are not confident enough to write in a nurses report their opinions, they leave it totally up to the doctors. The sense you get from the doctors and consultants is one of 'I am God', and often the nurses feed that delusion.

Recently I was informed that I was on the course I wanted and also I am assisting with the Woman's Clinic, which is the female side of the all new GP clinic we have starting on site. You'll note it's a GP clinic and not a nurse led clinic. I've been put forward for the clinic because of my general background only the whole thing has left me again feeling uncomfortable and frustrated.

A few weeks ago I stood in the office after an independent review of a secluded patient, there were senior nurses in the room and they sat with their mouths shut while the independent panel planned to release a patient who has threatened to attack each member of the nursing team on the ward when released, one of the threats as recently as the evening before.

In these situations I find it difficult to stay quiet, I argued with the consultant and one of the most senior nurses on site, bringing to their attention the recent threats and acts of aggression. Still the senior nurses on our team stayed quiet.

Having spoken to the general nurse attached to the GP clinic, I remember why I speak out and how through my training I was taught that I was a professional with as valid a view as any consultant, that it was I that was with the patient for more than 5 minutes during rounds and that it was I that the consultants relied on to give them clear feed back on how that patient was and how they were responding.

I'm left wondering how it is that mental health nurses were left so far behind that they are still handmaidens to the doctors when the general nurses pushed ahead with becoming respected professionals.

Sunday, 25 November 2007

Café De Paris, I wouldn't recommend it

Last night was a mates birthday and we all went out, she paid £500 for a table in The Café De Paris, in London's Piccadilly. The club itself is stunning as you can see from the photos (click images to enlarge), it's been open for some 90 years according to their website.


Unfortunately last night wasn't as good a birthday party as it should've been. We arrived at 10pm all of us were on a guest list and as I said my friend had paid £500 for the table. At this point one guy was turned away for wearing trainers, fair enough, then a second was turned away for wearing Timberland boots with a 'no hoodies comment' thrown in, now his jacket had a hood but he was smartly dressed and most certainly no hoodie. The third was turned away for a pair of black boots and the fourth was turned away for arguing with the doormen.

Due to £500 already being spent we carried on with the party whilst the guys who were turned away went on somewhere else, we weren't all that happy. As the night went on a few more managed to get in and then another four were refused. None of them were dressed against the strict dress code policy, all were smart casual with shoes, only all four were black.

It was at this point I went in collected my coat and left, going to the other club with the guys. Out of nine people on guest lists where a table had been paid for seven of them were black and were not dressed in any way that contravened the dress code on The Café De Paris own website for Saturday night.

Cafe de Paris runs a strict over 21's door policy

To avoid disappointment please dress accordingly,

sportswear is not allowed

People can draw their own conclusions to the rules of this venue.

Wednesday, 21 November 2007

Wordless Wednesday

Wallflower by Barbiedoll

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Wordless Wednesday Participants
1. Cheaper By the Half Dozen
2. eastcoastlife
3. SandyCarlson
4. aldon @ orient lodge
5. Petra
6. Andrée
7. And Miles To Go...
8. Parenting Diaries
9. Natalie
10. Simone\'s Butterfly
11. Sreisaat
12. Dare to Blog
13. WilStop
14. WilStop
15. Life Realities
16. Melanie T
17. D. Renee Bagby
18. Gattina
19. pips
20. maryt/theteach
21. geek-betty
22. jams o donnell
23. liza
24. Frigga
25. TorAa
26. Hoto

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Tuesday, 20 November 2007

Alternative medical treatment

In 2003 I was on a bus that had to do an emergency stop, a week later my lower back was in agony. At the time I was a student nurse on my first placement in a general hospital with heavy patients, it got to the stage where I could hardly move and I couldn't feel my left leg with the exception of sciatic pain.

I went to the doctor, they said there was a 6 month waiting list for physiotherapy, at that stage I couldn't wait that long and went to see a chiropractor. In one visit she worked her magic and my back was as good as new.

Since then I have taken care, done my exercises to stretch my back and on occasion used ice packs to relieve it when I've felt it aching and have been scared that I've done something again.

Two weeks ago whilst having 'fun' I ended up in pain again, two days later my back was in agony, I was again having sciatic pain down my left leg. Then to top it off I ended up with flu, I couldn't sleep simply because I couldn't find a comfy position to lay in. It all subsided and all the pain went, only I couldn't feel my leg, it was numb, not just the leg but everything on the left from the waist down.

Yesterday I went to the chiropractor again, this time he cracked my back and told me that I had an sacroiliac joint injury, the sacroiliac joint is a firm, small joint that lies at the junction of the spine and the pelvis. The sacroiliac joint does not move much, but it is critical to transferring the load of your upper body to your lower body. By the end of my night shift last night the feeling had returned to my lower left side.

Even though you have to pay for this treatment in the UK as opposed to seeing you doctor and being referred to physio for free I would recommend doing it, physio takes longer anyway.

Wednesday, 14 November 2007

Wordless Wednesday

So long...farewell... by PixelzPix


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Wordless Wednesday Participants
1. And Miles to Go...
2. eastcoastlife
3. Yen
4. CK Go Places
5. ONwebCHECK
6. martie
7. Hoto
8. Frigga
9. jenn in holland
10. TorAaMusic

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Thursday, 8 November 2007

Not what you expect to find ...

What do you expect to find when you Google an old friend?

With most of my friends I don't expect to find them anywhere online, love them all as I do they just don't do the internet.

What I don't expect to find is what I stumbled across last night whilst waiting for my man to finish work. I was bored, ready to go out and just waiting for the phone call to say I could leave home so I sat and searched facebook, then on a whim I changed the search to Google, up pops the name several times.

I looked at the results and there were a couple of reviews, film reviews that is. Strangely I went and had a look and remembered a set of vampire teeth moulds that were sat on the side at one of his flats, I looked a little closer at the search results.

What I found was shocking, I sat and watched a trailer to one of the films whilst talking to my mate back home (well talking might be the wrong word), I was cussing and making sounds of disgust whilst giving her a commentary on what I was seeing so in turn she was echoing me. Why the film shocked me I have no idea all the time whilst talking to my friend I repeatedly said "it's so him" and I've always known of his psycho tendencies, love of gore and a dark side that's part of his attraction, for me anyway (none of that is meant as a slur).

So what did I actually find? I found my mate Dean in a film that he and his brother have made called Fantacide, it's full of blood, gore and other nasty things (not one for the kiddies). On my blog I'm not going to link to it or show any photos simply because I kind of like having the child friendly (within reason) look to the site.

I can't comment more on the film because I've only seen the trailer and read reviews, it's not politically correct from what the reviews and an interview with the director suggest, not that is a great surprise to me and on that subject I shall stop. It is very much full of blood and gore, also some nasty offensive scenes, I know I have issues about the cat.

I think that a comment made by my current man last night when I was telling him about this could very well some it up ... Oh my God, what sort of friends do you have!?

So Dean or Shane if you ever stumble across this ... Dean I still have your shirt, it's at mums I really meant to give it back and oh my God on so many levels !!!

Wednesday, 7 November 2007

Wordless 'Blogblast for Peace' Wednesday

It's not only Wordless Wednesday it is also BlogBlast For Peace Day and soon to be Remembrance Sunday (November 11th).

With all these related issues in mind I bring you the following image by GhostCity ... Follow the link below to see more from this artist.


War by GhostCity


Wordless Wednesday Participants
1. Sreisaat
2. Hoto
3. Shelia
4. Natalie
5. pelfy
6. Yen
7. Joel Robinson
8. pips
9. And Miles to Go...
10. jams o donnell
11. Just me a Mom~Jenn
12. SandyCarlson
13. mar

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